It's Not Always A Bad Thing

we argue, we get hurt. we get angry. it happens all the time.

friends, family, boyfriends, girlfriends.

and we think its never a good thing, arguing.

i beg to differ though. yes, we do not like how it feels.

but if we were to break it all down, and reason, 

you'd find that arguments aren't always bad. 

and no, i'm not crazy. look at it this way.

when we argue, it hurts, or we get disappointed, or get angry.

and we feel that way cos we expect more of the relationship.

the reason why we expect more is that it's important, and it matters.

it means something. isn't it good that it means something to you?

so yea. to those who always feel down when you argue, this post is for you.

at the end of the day, you should always feel a little glad.

the negative isn't always negative. or doesn't always stay that way.

 at least to me, this is how i'd like to look at it. besides, a little optimism wouldn't kill.